When you were a child, you were maybe imagining yourself finding the love of your life at about 21, married by 25 and having children somewhere around the age of 28. But life often doesn’t go as planned. For many women, finding the right partner to have children with is far from a piece of cake. Additionally, even if you’re lucky enough to have found the perfect person who shares your desire to have a baby, this doesn’t necessarily mean that the complications are over, as about 1 in 10 men and 1 in 8 women in the UK struggle with infertility.
The good news is that these days there are many solutions available to people who are unable to conceive, whether this is due to the fact that they are single, in a lesbian relationship or are experiencing fertility issues. Fertility techniques such as IVF or intrauterine insemination are becoming more and more efficient and many babies are born each year thanks to egg or sperm donation.
If you’re a single woman, in a lesbian relationship or your partner has fertility issues, one of your options for finally becoming a mum is to use a sperm donor in order to get pregnant. To make things even simpler, you can now find a sperm donor online. Here is how:
Why do people look for a sperm donor online and not in a sperm bank?
When we think of sperm donation, most of us picture sperm banks or fertility clinics. However, many people prefer looking for a sperm donor online. One of the reasons for this choice is financial. Online, you are able to reduce the costs and select a free sperm donor, whereas if you go to a sperm bank, you are obliged to purchase samples.
Additionally, searching online allows you to communicate directly with different donors, whether by email, chat or telephone. You can even meet them face-to-face to ask them everything you want to know. Looking for a sperm donor online is an opportunity to find out more about their personality, medical history, job, interests, as well as anything else you might be curious about.
You are also able to arrange with your donor the most suitable agreement regarding donation and conception. Additionally, online donation offers aspiring mothers the chance to select a donor who is willing to have a relationship with their child, allowing them to grow up knowing the identity of their biological father.
How can I find a sperm donor online?
As this method of searching for a sperm donor is becoming more and more popular around the world, there are now numerous ways to find a donor online. Many people use websites dedicated to those who are looking for a sperm donor or a surrogate. Some prefer Facebook or Reddit, while others opt for a much broader range of sites and social media platforms in order to to improve their odds.
Registering with a website that connects sperm donors to aspiring parents is a simple and helpful solution. These sites work like dating websites except that you will be looking for a donor rather than a date. Online, you can find a whole host of sperm donor profiles. You can then contact those that interest you, chat, or use the forums to ask a question or find a match. Many of these websites also provide useful guides to help you to find your donor or to obtain more information about the diverse ways of conceiving with donor sperm.
How can I become pregnant with a sperm donor?
Once you’ve found your donor, there is still a little planning left to do. Firstly, you need to make sure that the donor is free of any STDs, infections or genetic diseases. You also need to know that their sperm is of good quality. Don’t hesitate to request that they provide you with any necessary documents or certificates. It’s vital that you maximize your chances of conceiving a healthy baby!
When this is all done, and you’re feeling reassured, you can then make arrangements to receive their sample. Whether this is at their place, yours, in a hotel room, sent by post to your clinic or home, the choice is entirely up to you. However, bear in mind that the best option for you also depends on the method of conception that you’re considering.
Do you want to perform the insemination yourself, in the comfort of your own home? In this case it is best to have the donor provide the sample at your place, thus guaranteeing that you receive the freshest semen possible. Perhaps you would prefer instead to be looked after by professional staff in a clinic? If yes, you could simply ask your donor to provide the sample at the clinic. Are you over 35 or experiencing fertility issues? In vitro fertilisation, which involves the fertilisation of eggs with sperm in a lab, might be the best solution for you.
Whatever you decide, avoid unpleasant surprises and always make sure that you and your donor are on the same page concerning the way you want to conceive, as well as their level of involvement with the future child.
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